Inspired by the book "The Elegance of the Hedgehog" by Muriel Barbery Have I committed myself to you in some of my thoughts to share leave then if they are really so profound is now time to be seen. I will definitely try not to be too extravagant.
I will start with a spiritual dilemma that concerns me again and again and you could give him based on the eponymous play by Berthold Brecht the title "The Good Person of Sezuchan" .
In short it is a matter to be good and not to go to the dogs, especially us women, the usually affects. We want to be liked, be nice and strive for harmony but we will also be taken seriously? A good example of this is to me the world of work: adopted a colleague has a favor to ask an example because it gets a little sweaty, and now pressed for time. Clearly, as we help but be happy and accepted is to come more often, one has the impression, perhaps even the colleague pulls the work, how do you deal with it. Finally, one might lose the sympathy but what if it looks like Mr happily walked in after work while even makes overtime? Similar examples can be found in other areas of life, we all know the small dilemmas that friendships peppered include it sounds like like the little problems of my love to but what if the small test times to address her own problems is the age of the interlocutor, the sent to its own theme and makes clear that his / her problem is of course much more dramatic. Yes, how do you deal with it?
Now the problem has a simple solution as I have learned recently: a friendly but strict limits set. Sounds simple - but it is not, because as always sees the practice is different than theory. I, for I have therefore decided to me a healthy dose of egotism to acquire and me more time with added and are not liked as everybody's darling aka everybody's Depp to be, not again forget that I'm actually also really nice and helpful. Let's see how I will continue to implement what will be for responding to and where it leads me, nor do I believe in the goodness yes. In this sense, final words of the good Berthold
"We are disappointed and concerned themselves see. The curtain, and all questions open. "
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